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Crying Hearts

03-06-10

Crying Heart

Taken and modified by Craig Cmehil

Many of you know that I fancy photography and being the geek I am I like to play around with photo editing software as well. So having had a total bust on a photowalk today due to not so nice rainy/wet snowy weather I decided to pull out one of my all time favorite photos and play around a little bit.

This is is a classic black and white with a tad bit of color coming through, I’ve done a lot of these over the years and it’s always an exercise in patience and calm nerves and I find it surprisingly relaxing it to zoom in and out on the photo and select pixel by pixel the area I want to “expose as color”.

I think I’ll be ordering this one as well to frame and put on the wall!

Posted by Craig on March 6, 2010

Written by Dr. Spencer Johnson who also authored the book The One Minute Manager.

Homepage - Who Moved My Cheese?: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life

Years ago I was given this book my dear friends who wanted to remind me that I had friends who supported me and would be there for me as time moved on. At first I thought the book was a joke, a book about cheese little did I know that I would be reading a guide to the soul and to dealing with change and your fears in the face of change…

Perhaps a little about myself first, I’m no stranger to change I have dealt with change all my life having parents from two different cultures and countries, a father in the military and moving around the world quite often left me with no choice but to accept change head on. Over the years though one gets comfortable with what they have and they like being where they are, yet change comes whether you want it to or not and you have choices to make.

I’ve made many changes in my life, big decisions and little decisions. I choice to move North away from home and take a new job which led me further North and eventually overseas to Germany. More choices were made and I left one company for another, I married, I had children, I changed jobs and moved again and now here I am amidst multiple changes occuring all around me and I wonder am I “Hem”, “Haw”, “Sniff” or “Scurry” at the moment as these things take place around me? Am I aware of these changes and how they might impact me or am I hunkerd down in my section enjoying what I think I still have?

This book and it’s cute story are all about facing those fears, understanding them and opening your mind to change and the future. Right now I’m surrounded by changes, changes are taking place around us in rapid succession and we need to open our eyes and be aware of what we see, hear and also and most critically we need to be able to separate the pieces and understand the true impacts and not get caught up in the hustle and bustle. This is certainly no time to close our eyes and think “this has nothing to do with me”.

This book, again a very cute story, is all about that and how one might be thinking or acting right now. Taking a look a basic look at 4 types of personality the book pokes fun and helps one to understand which personality they might be representing right now and of course how they might better approach the situation and alter their thoughts to maximize the benefits of the changes taking place.

Some lessons I learned from the book,

  • It’s OK to be afraid, as long as you understand that it is just fear
  • Fear of the unknown is often a good sign that you are ready to venture into the unknown
  • Friends should sick together to overcome challenges but don’t let a friend hold you back from what you know is the righ thing to do
  • Pay attention to your surroundings, listen to the broader community
  • Adapt when things begin to aler and embrace those changes

Most importantly though change is a cycle and it will come again and again and the best thing you can do is keep doing what you are good at. I’ve lived by one main rule since I started working “everyone is replaceable and if you want to ensure your job then continue to show that you can adapt, learn and innovate and you do and are always willing to give more than 100%”

Posted by Craig on February 22, 2010

I recently received an email that has had me smiling every time I have thought about it since. Last year, in September, I did a show about “Micro Finance” and specifically about “Kiva” a lending site. The mail I received was the result of the “loan” that I gave while live on the show.

Personally I believe very much in the old proverb, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. If you teach a man to fish you feed him for a lifetime.“, therefore when I came across Kiva I thought it was a brilliant way to give a donation. I believe a lot in giving to give but I also like to support people who want to live themselves and so Kiva allowed me to do it. I said I would also donate once and wait and see what happened before doing it again.

The mail I received was the fact that the $25.00 I loaned had just been repaid in full!

It was an amazing feeling to receive the mail and to realize that this person, Elizabeth Vlejo, is living a dream and making things happen!

Elizabeth Viejo business is a rice grower. She tills a hectare of farm so closely from their house. Aside from farm, she also raises pigs. She feeds and bathes them everyday to be able to grow her pigs healthy and heavy. She has four children. Her eldest child is 24 years old and is still living with her.
Receiving a loan of Php 8,000 is truly worthwhile because she needs resources for farm financing. The seeds that she used in her farm are not yet paid , the loan will help paying the seeds. She also planned buying 2 piglets and feed. She said that CEVI gives the lowest interest rate, which is 2% a month, and is very affordable to repay

So for me Kiva is a winner and I’m be searching for the next person to help this weekend! I also started a group for anyone who would like to share their own adventures. Together we can change the world is the thought, so how real can we make?

Posted by Craig on February 18, 2010